Muave
Dwelling in the Shire
I want to find a piece of your mind. I want to see your make believe.
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Post by Muave on Oct 10, 2003 15:14:25 GMT -5
Legolas, if you know who raped her then why don't YOU go to the authorities or someone. If you're so worried about her then get her some help so she can deal with this instead of just sitting around says "woe always me."
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Post by Lègôlás on Oct 10, 2003 17:58:08 GMT -5
first off...no cussing mersadie. and second off, muave. i am not sitting around "woe is me" it's a freaking discussion not a time to feel sorry for yourself! and i know their names, i've never met them, so don't start making judgements! get it got it good!
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Post by Gollum on Oct 10, 2003 19:59:57 GMT -5
first off...no cussing mersadie. and second off, muave. i am not sitting around "woe is me" it's a freaking discussion not a time to feel sorry for yourself! and i know their names, i've never met them, so don't start making judgements! get it got it good! Then get her to tell someone...she doesn't want them to do the same thing to someone else.
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Post by Lègôlás on Oct 11, 2003 1:16:02 GMT -5
i've tried. she wants to keep thinking she isn't pregnant. she pretty much let them..she knew she would get drunk and have sex....but that's where the complications start.
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Post by Gollum on Oct 11, 2003 4:06:20 GMT -5
Even if she isn't pregnant, that doesn't change the fact that she got raped, and that rape is punishable by law.
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mersadie
Mines of Moria
If the shoe fits, buy it in every color!!!
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Post by mersadie on Oct 11, 2003 11:41:07 GMT -5
WOW, trama trama trama, lol, seriously you guys, legolos, you need to do something about this and not keep on just talking about it, if she got raped, she needs to get something done, but if not, you should still do something and not jsut sit around, however this is her problem not yours and you need to resepect her personal space, so talk to her about it and go from there
ps, mauve, are you brittany.....
later, mersadie
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Post by Lègôlás on Oct 11, 2003 12:42:16 GMT -5
i have talked to her about it. and yes, she is muave. and she just keeps saying she isn't pregnant and i told you in my previous post she said she knew about all of it and let it happen.
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Post by Arwen Undomiel on Oct 11, 2003 13:32:48 GMT -5
Ya I know I came in a bit late. anyways I am really sorry about the girl. I think she should go to someone because what if they gave her more then just getting her pregant. she needs to see a doc. at once. If she does decide to keep the baby then she will want to know if the baby is going to be healthy and to see if she didn't suffer any damage or get anything. Even if she doen't want to report the people who did this to her she needs to and she has to do it soon so that it doesn't happen to anyone else no. matter what happen if she didn't want it, its rape. she shouldn't keep this a
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Post by Lègôlás on Oct 11, 2003 13:42:32 GMT -5
this is so true! finally someone had a good opinion(no offense to anyone else). she wants to take a pregnancy test by herself first to see if she is, then go to the doctor. don't ask me why. her mom knows, she just doesn't want to freak her out...
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mersadie
Mines of Moria
If the shoe fits, buy it in every color!!!
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Post by mersadie on Oct 11, 2003 17:22:23 GMT -5
legolas, who is this girl anywho......who did this to her....??
mersadie
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Post by Lègôlás on Oct 11, 2003 18:03:41 GMT -5
ok, you do know her, but don't tell her i told you, but her name's jolene. the guy that did it to her was lamar.
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mersadie
Mines of Moria
If the shoe fits, buy it in every color!!!
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Post by mersadie on Oct 11, 2003 18:38:11 GMT -5
jolene, that name sounds soooo familiar, was she the girl that went to coarsegold last year, does she have dark hair and skin..........
mersadie
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Post by Gollum on Oct 14, 2003 21:17:50 GMT -5
this is so true! finally someone had a good opinion(no offense to anyone else). she wants to take a pregnancy test by herself first to see if she is, then go to the doctor. don't ask me why. her mom knows, she just doesn't want to freak her out... It's bit rude to say that, since there's really no such thing as a good or bad opinion anyway.
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Post by Éowyn on Oct 14, 2003 21:41:28 GMT -5
I'm very late in the discussion, but I am going to have to be the one to set up an arguement I guess.
So, you say that she broght this upon herself? Is she scared to tell someone about it because she is worried she might get in trouble fore drinking? Well, if that's the case, then she needs to suck up her gut and go and tell someone. She doesn't have to, but if she just wants to sit around and not let them go unpunished, then that is her problem. I think she is bieng incredibly stupid, she has to tell someone. They could go out there and rape other people, and it would be partly her fault for not telling anyone about it so they could stop it.
And her mother knows? Well. why doesn't her mother tell someone? I think this whole thing is ridiculus, I mean, her own mother is just going to sit there and watch her daughter go through all that pain and not turn the guy who did this to her in?
And thridly, I have one word. ABORTION. I know it's terrible, but the way i see it, she has no other choice. If she has that child, she will obviously have to give it up, and when that time comes, she will be heartbroken. Any women who has to give up their child is devistated. YOu carry this thing around in your stomach for 9 months, and then give it life, and you have a connection with it. When you give up a child, a part of your life goes away, and I'm sure she doesn't want that depression upon her.
$-Mo-$
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Post by Gollum on Oct 14, 2003 23:32:01 GMT -5
I'm very late in the discussion, but I am going to have to be the one to set up an arguement I guess. So, you say that she broght this upon herself? Is she scared to tell someone about it because she is worried she might get in trouble fore drinking? Well, if that's the case, then she needs to suck up her gut and go and tell someone. She doesn't have to, but if she just wants to sit around and not let them go unpunished, then that is her problem. I think she is bieng incredibly stupid, she has to tell someone. They could go out there and rape other people, and it would be partly her fault for not telling anyone about it so they could stop it. And her mother knows? Well. why doesn't her mother tell someone? I think this whole thing is ridiculus, I mean, her own mother is just going to sit there and watch her daughter go through all that pain and not turn the guy who did this to her in? And thridly, I have one word. ABORTION. I know it's terrible, but the way i see it, she has no other choice. If she has that child, she will obviously have to give it up, and when that time comes, she will be heartbroken. Any women who has to give up their child is devistated. YOu carry this thing around in your stomach for 9 months, and then give it life, and you have a connection with it. When you give up a child, a part of your life goes away, and I'm sure she doesn't want that depression upon her. $-Mo-$ I'm against abortion, unless there is a serious risk to the mother's life. Abortion is probably pretty devestating also, and with adoption the kid would be taken care of and everything, just not by you. I see abortion as killing something that never had a chance to live...and it's really just not right if you ask me.
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