Post by The Stinky Beach Whale on Aug 13, 2004 9:57:30 GMT -5
okay now im gonna say sommit intellictual ( spelling i know lol... kinda of a ironic thing but oh well) for a change....
i have two stories to tell on this topic and it might take a while and so i apoligise if this is really long and i will try to break this up so it is easier to read and to the point
okay story no 1 ( both are true by the way)
i knew this girl last year in high school,,, she has had a terrible life and used to cry alot during class... i felt very sorry for her and spent ages comforting her and etc...
anyways.... every time she has a boyfriend she waits aboot 3 months and then says she thinks she might be pregnant... she then says she has an abortion... but the thing is this has happened 4 times and everytime is near the end of the realtionship when he says he wants to dump her... now this might sound insensitive but i though an abortion is a very traumatic experience for a woman and the thought of someone going through one 4 times is crazy as abortions also make a woman less fertile...
also if she has alreadly been pregnant then surely she is gonna think twice aboot sleeping with people again... and it kinda annoys me caus i think that it is all for attention and that makes me feel sick as there are geniune people out there who have these probs...
story no 2
i had a friend for aboot ten years of schooling who was a really pretty happy girl who was always fun to be with.. but the other day i found out she was homeless and also pregnant.. this makes me feel really sad caus her foster parents ( she is adopted) made her quit school and get a job... now she lost her old job they sent her to a homeless place and she was kicked out of there caus she couldnt pay for anything... and the other day i found her on the street in just the clothes she was wearin.. i found some old clothes and helped her out but i feel so bad for her and she cant get a job caus all she has is her jeans....
and you cant go to a job interview making an impression like that... she has also resorted to stealin and stuff so yeh things are real bad.....
the one thing i would make clear ont his whole topic is :
being young is great and you shouldnt feel cooped up like you cant take risks and enjoy all aspects of life but with all experiences come risks... if ur willing to take that risk then its okay but if ur unsure how to deal with all the possible outcomes then consider it thoroughly.. sure being a teen is aboot learning aboot life and correcting mistakes but if you live life on the edge experiencing everything that you can then one day ur gonna slip up and end up living the rest of your life either regretting things or being cooped up even more if that makes sense.. so yeh live life as fully as you can but never fool yourslef into thinking that everythings gonna turn out cosy with every choice you make because life likes to throw things at you just like ur gonna throw things at ur life....
i know that probably made no sense but oh well lol... as for abortion.. i would NEVER do it but i never like to judge other people so if theyre wanna do it okay... it doesnt make you a bad person it just gives you a different opinion to life than i have
thankyou for reading all that lol.. and if ur still awake then well done!!! you survived emily's ramble!! ;D
i have two stories to tell on this topic and it might take a while and so i apoligise if this is really long and i will try to break this up so it is easier to read and to the point
okay story no 1 ( both are true by the way)
i knew this girl last year in high school,,, she has had a terrible life and used to cry alot during class... i felt very sorry for her and spent ages comforting her and etc...
anyways.... every time she has a boyfriend she waits aboot 3 months and then says she thinks she might be pregnant... she then says she has an abortion... but the thing is this has happened 4 times and everytime is near the end of the realtionship when he says he wants to dump her... now this might sound insensitive but i though an abortion is a very traumatic experience for a woman and the thought of someone going through one 4 times is crazy as abortions also make a woman less fertile...
also if she has alreadly been pregnant then surely she is gonna think twice aboot sleeping with people again... and it kinda annoys me caus i think that it is all for attention and that makes me feel sick as there are geniune people out there who have these probs...
story no 2
i had a friend for aboot ten years of schooling who was a really pretty happy girl who was always fun to be with.. but the other day i found out she was homeless and also pregnant.. this makes me feel really sad caus her foster parents ( she is adopted) made her quit school and get a job... now she lost her old job they sent her to a homeless place and she was kicked out of there caus she couldnt pay for anything... and the other day i found her on the street in just the clothes she was wearin.. i found some old clothes and helped her out but i feel so bad for her and she cant get a job caus all she has is her jeans....
and you cant go to a job interview making an impression like that... she has also resorted to stealin and stuff so yeh things are real bad.....
the one thing i would make clear ont his whole topic is :
being young is great and you shouldnt feel cooped up like you cant take risks and enjoy all aspects of life but with all experiences come risks... if ur willing to take that risk then its okay but if ur unsure how to deal with all the possible outcomes then consider it thoroughly.. sure being a teen is aboot learning aboot life and correcting mistakes but if you live life on the edge experiencing everything that you can then one day ur gonna slip up and end up living the rest of your life either regretting things or being cooped up even more if that makes sense.. so yeh live life as fully as you can but never fool yourslef into thinking that everythings gonna turn out cosy with every choice you make because life likes to throw things at you just like ur gonna throw things at ur life....
i know that probably made no sense but oh well lol... as for abortion.. i would NEVER do it but i never like to judge other people so if theyre wanna do it okay... it doesnt make you a bad person it just gives you a different opinion to life than i have
thankyou for reading all that lol.. and if ur still awake then well done!!! you survived emily's ramble!! ;D